Who’s behind Pink Tape?

lucy reedPink Tape is written by Lucy Reed, a family law barrister and mediator *waves*. On this blog you will see me identified as ‘Familoo’ (a concatenation of ‘family’ and ‘Loo’. A moment of poor judgment right there). I have been at the family bar for over a decade and am still amazed at how little most people understand about the work that I do and what goes on inside the Family Courts.

Since summer 2008 when I made my escape from the big smoke and back to my roots in the West Country I have been a member of St John’s Chambers in Bristol. Best move I ever made…

According to the Legal 500 2011 I have an “impressive ability to get to the crux of a complicated and messy dispute”. That’s a euphemism for a lawyer who verbalises what she thinks a bit too readily. In 2012 they said I was “a strong advocate and hardworking” (transl. : “WILL NOT SHUT the flip UP!”). In 2013 they said that I was “excellent on complex and tricky cases“.

I am also the author of The Family Court Without a Lawyer – A Handbook for Litigants in Person. If you are really that interested in my CV you can read it elsewhere.

About the blog

Pink Tape is not just about family law: I post about what interests me and whilst that is largely family law, it also includes non-family legal stuff, non-legal family stuff and stuff totally unrelated to either law or family.

I’d love to think that this blog will persuade at least one person we aren’t all the money hungry sharks you think we are. Some of us are quite nice really. And I’d like to think that I can provide some useful information about family law for those working in the area without getting too heavy or boring.

An emerging purpose behind the blog is to enhance the quality of public information and debate about legal matters. There is some great journalism out there, from law reporting and legal commentary to simple reporting of legal stories. But there is also some terrible, sloppy, malicious and inaccurate journalism. They should know better and do better.

Not everyone likes Pink Tape or family lawyers in general. Some of the people who have given it the thumbs up are Law Actually (Blawggies 2010 – Best Legal Commentary), The Times (top legal Blogger March 2011), and The Guardian (“one of the best legal bloggers for style and content” May 2011). Pink Tape has recently become a part of the Guardian Legal Network. In October 2012 I won the Jordans Family Law Readers Commentary Award for my “entertaining and informative” blog, having been shortlisted for the Family Law Most Innovative Family Lawyer award two years running.

Rules of the blog

Of course, everything on the blog is suitably anonymised (or made up) so that nobody (including me) gets into hot water. Where necessary I have tweaked facts to ensure that individual cases are not identifiable. I will not post comments that in my opinion offend against the law in respect of the privacy of family proceedings. Individuals involved in proceedings will not be identified by me or in comments unless they have been identified in a published judgment.

I will not publish anything which I think might have potential to be defamatory. I don’t have time to research every assertion made in a comment – so I have to adopt a cautious approach in order to avoid (hopefully) costly legal proceedings or nasty threatening letters. If you are confident it’s not defamatory you are free to publish it yourself elsewhere at your own risk.

Nothing in this blog is intended to constitute or be taken as legal advice, so please don’t treat it as such. You may think it applies to your particular circumstances but it almost certainly doesn’t and I cannot accept responsibility for any reliance you may place upon its contents. The information contained on the blog is as up to date and accurate as I can make it given my other commitments – Pink Tape is a hobby which I fit in as and when. This means I cannot and do not cover all changes to the law or update information that becomes outdated or obsolete.

And of course I cannot be responsible for the content of sites linked to from this blog, either in terms of their accuracy or the views expressed on them.

Moderation – Unfortunately I’ve had to start moderating comments on this blog. Please be assured I don’t plan to block sensible contributions to a discussion, whether the contributors agree with me or not – but I will weed out comments that are seeking to exploit this blog as a forum to air their own negative views about lawyers in a repetitive or offensive manner. I will try and moderate as quickly as possible. Occasionally something gets lost in spam and disappears into the ether. It is not a conspiracy.

Right of Reply – I try to be careful and fair with my posts on this blog and try to avoid causing upset to individuals, but if there is any post concerning you as an individual that contains an inaccuracy or mistake that you would like me to correct please post a comment and I will give you a right of reply. I will usually only edit or reject comments that contain offensive material or material which the law or rules of court prevent me from publishing.

Please feel free to email me with suggestions for topics I could cover or blog posts you’d like to see (email: familoo at pinktape dot co dot uk).

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  1. […] Lucy Reed sensed a chill in the air, as did Obiter J, who has written consistently on the topic. Andrew Sharpe wasn’t losing any sleep over it, though felt there was more to think about for commercial bloggers. Paul Bernal recommended keeping vigilant, and blamed the threat of regulation on bad behaviour by the press. […]

  2. […] know about the practice of family law in more detail the best place to start would probably be with Pink Tape, written by the Bristol based family law barrister Lucy Reed. Her posts range from mildly whimsical […]

    • Lucy, thank-you from the very bottom of our hearts…… The W-J partnership are a family again thanks to you! :)

  3. Family Courts… are these the same Family Courts that Christopher Booker et al have been dragging into the spotlight recently?

  4. I retired 3 years ago having spent 35 years as a Social Worker in Private Family Law and also in Public Law as a Guardian.
    I still do some work in a Contact Centre and am concerned about the future of this provision. I think that arguably Contact Centres and Mediation Services do more for the well being of children than Cafcass.
    Whilst the funding for Contact Centres in these times of austerity is critical I see more and more expensive red tape being created by Cafcass for Centres and the latest idea of inspections by the Children’s Board as just another costly idea that diverts funds.
    Historically the adoption of the Guardian model for Private Family Law was, with the benefit of hindsight and in my opinion, inappropriate for Cafcass interventions. ‘Putting the Child First’ is fine as a slogan but in private Law it only identifies the issue. In my view a more hollistic approach is required which involves all members of the family. Whilst not perfect the family, it seems to me, is still generally speaking the best place to raise children whether it is intact or not.

    • In my opinion and my sons experience cafcass have no interest in the fathers rights and opinions they are all for the mother

      • I have lost contact with my daughter for whom I was main carer. CAFCASS lies/self-interest, court bias, gross selfishness of her mother pandered to, the works.

        But you know the whole system is based on divide and mi5-rule and that includes the playing of ‘rights’ off against one-another. I’m not interested in playing that losing game to the benefit of a cynical hierarchy, interested only in control.

        We need a return to democracy, common sense and reason.

        The whole political correctness phenomenon is just the same old divisive game with a ‘progressive’ label designed to destroy freedom.

        The father’s rights campaign is sadly a total red-herring… ‘move away from the light’ and see the thing for what it is.

        “It” is certainly is not out to favour women, simply use them to destroy their own families.
        [Edit Stuart I’ve edited your name for the sake of anonymity – Lucy]

    • If it weren’t for CAFCASS myself and my partner would be facing a very unsure and stressful future! Hats off to the G for her honesty and fairness at our hearing which saw us winning against the LA!

  5. Delyth Rennie

    The closure of contact centres is indeed cause for great concern. The priority should be ensuring no more centres close (and those that have are reinstated). Many are run on shoestring budgets providing services that are incredibly good value. I don’t know about this proposal for inspection by the Cafcass Children’s Board, so if anyone has more information I’d be interested to hear

  6. I think the justice system is outrageous so the mother can use a child as a weapon and an obstruction to allow the child the right to see the father even though she has lied to the courts concerning abuse with no evidence say what she wants about the father of the child and cause heartache for the father and the rest of the child’s close relatives the grandparents and other family members and the courts allow this, about time the mothers are questioned and pay for there court fees may think twice before crying wolf make me angry

  7. Good afternoon Lucy.

    Came across your blog while randomly surfing the internet.

    The link you have given linking your profile at St. John’s Chamber is broker.

    While your name appears at St. John’s Chamber’s website, the link is different.

    You might want to correct that.



  8. In 2012 I read your blog eventually buying your book for my partner. It was very helpful especially when the money ran out and he began to represent himself.

    I have been re reading this as our problems are really no nearer being sorted out. We are now on the 8th /9th contact order which has been broken again within two months, despite threats of residency and prison from the judge.

    Watching my partner going through this torture is heartbreaking. What can this be doing to his child? The system is all he has and I am grateful that you have let us see some positive outcomes, from his point of view.

    The amount of public money for: police investigations, social services investigations, MASH referrals, GP letters, school letters, not forgetting Cafcass reports and court time is crazy although I guess sometimes necessary.

    Fortunately, I have a friend who at the beginning of the court process told me how emotionally draining this would be, she even predicted the accusations that would be made against my partner accurately. This from my point of view has been incredibly helpful.

    Thank you again Lucy for the blog on the system and thank you my friend for the accurate predictions of my partners ex partners game playing!!

    • Glad it was useful, although I’m sorry to hear how protracted and stressful it continues to be for you both. Best of luck with it.

  9. Does anybody know when the Children Act 1989 is up for a re-write? One wonders what the agenda is likely to be now we have a majority-Conservative government…. We have had fairly swingeing legal aid cuts for the last 5 years, now there’s talk of modelling 25% and 40% cuts which could hit Children’s Services hard. Privatisation? Voluntarisation? Thoughts welcome…

  10. hi
    last week i had my initial interview with Caffcass and the social worker failed to place the receiver. What i overheard was absolutely appalling . Not only was i discriminated against for class , but racism was taken as a matter of fact! i was ridiculed and hysterically laughed at . I have come away with sleepless nights and so so stressed that my children will not have a fair hearing . The staff are biased , not impartial and totally unprofessional and did not listen
    to any of my facts based on meetings between counsillors, school welfare officers and what the children will describe after one to one sessions ! I am absolutely disgusted .

    • Leanne,
      If you have heard a CAFCASS officer discussing you in discriminatory terms I would suggest that if you have not already done so you make a written note of what you overheard and make a complaint, requesting a new officer to deal with your case.

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