My husband always joke (with a rather wan expression on his face) that you should never marry a divorce lawyer. But, for better or for worse, we are still together after over ten years. And now I know why - when marrying a divorce lawyer one does at least go into the thing with eyes open. David Allen Green's valentine's day post proposes a new generation of marriage lawyers, rather than divorce lawyers, so that when parties tie themselves legally they understand the consequences of their actions. Sounds like a plan to me. Now where do I sign up for the training?